The Vision To Judge
The way you look… the way you see… that determines what you are.Vision is not just mere sense but more than that. A way you judge the world, and thus a medium that determines who you really are.
A man works hard for his family. Is not highly educated and crowned with big degrees or titles but yes he has a wife and a son he loves. Loves to that extend that he is ready to slog whole day… months and years to see his family has it all. All the basic needs of survival. Educates his son to a professional institute and sees to it that his family lives comfortably. He hardly has time to stay back and talk to them or watch his favorite program even on Sunday evenings. He is sometimes a liar, a liar cause he lies that he is all well and runs for work even if he’d be boiling with fever. Sometimes saves for himself to buy something but ends up getting some electronics or stuff just to see a smile on his son. Not expecting even a thanks that he really never gets. All he is used to is sacrifices just to see his loved ones happy and that’s what makes him happy.
Yet he is sometimes complained and nagged by his so called 'loved ones'. Sometimes in demand of something he just forgot to get them or probably he failed his promise to take them to a holiday. No one really cares how hard he sweats to jolt down the thing the `complainers' posses. No one ever saw the cheaper phone or something else he choose so that he saves some money, keeping his thoughts that the savings might someday be needed for his loved ones.
I too have visions that make me judge people and the world although many a times I am wrong cause judgments is based on comparisons. You judge a person in respect to someone else. Yes I too have many complains about my dad but what I am happy of is that I learnt to judge him and compare him against the unfortunate sons of other wreck less fathers and that is what makes my dad the best dad under my microscope. The same man and his complaining son in the above lines is me and dad. Everything is just the same. It’s just me that changed my way of seeing him or say my vision. Every person has a good nature, strengths and some weaknesses. How you judge them is what you see in them that makes you love or hated them. Relationship are bound by the way u see and judge each other that takes you to great heights or ends your relations.
“Phul ko aakha ma, Phul nai sansara. Kara ko akha ma Karai Sansara." –From the Nepali song of Ani Choying Dolma.
A man works hard for his family. Is not highly educated and crowned with big degrees or titles but yes he has a wife and a son he loves. Loves to that extend that he is ready to slog whole day… months and years to see his family has it all. All the basic needs of survival. Educates his son to a professional institute and sees to it that his family lives comfortably. He hardly has time to stay back and talk to them or watch his favorite program even on Sunday evenings. He is sometimes a liar, a liar cause he lies that he is all well and runs for work even if he’d be boiling with fever. Sometimes saves for himself to buy something but ends up getting some electronics or stuff just to see a smile on his son. Not expecting even a thanks that he really never gets. All he is used to is sacrifices just to see his loved ones happy and that’s what makes him happy.
Yet he is sometimes complained and nagged by his so called 'loved ones'. Sometimes in demand of something he just forgot to get them or probably he failed his promise to take them to a holiday. No one really cares how hard he sweats to jolt down the thing the `complainers' posses. No one ever saw the cheaper phone or something else he choose so that he saves some money, keeping his thoughts that the savings might someday be needed for his loved ones.
I too have visions that make me judge people and the world although many a times I am wrong cause judgments is based on comparisons. You judge a person in respect to someone else. Yes I too have many complains about my dad but what I am happy of is that I learnt to judge him and compare him against the unfortunate sons of other wreck less fathers and that is what makes my dad the best dad under my microscope. The same man and his complaining son in the above lines is me and dad. Everything is just the same. It’s just me that changed my way of seeing him or say my vision. Every person has a good nature, strengths and some weaknesses. How you judge them is what you see in them that makes you love or hated them. Relationship are bound by the way u see and judge each other that takes you to great heights or ends your relations.
“Phul ko aakha ma, Phul nai sansara. Kara ko akha ma Karai Sansara." –From the Nepali song of Ani Choying Dolma.
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